Breaking Through the Barriers
To understand Cosmic Communication you must
first be aware of the limitations of third dimensional communication. Third
dimensional communication is essentially the transfer of a mental construct
from one personís mind to anotherís. Unfortunately much is inevitably lost in
the translation as it is virtually impossible to express the complexity of an
idea using only words. Consequently, is not a very effective way to
The fundamental reason for this
ineffectiveness is that even though you are participating with each other from
a third-dimensional perspective, each of you is in fact also multidimensional.
When you communicate within a third dimensional paradigm you rely exclusively
on your mind and your five human senses to interact with each other; when in
fact, most of the information that is available to you to accurately interpret
the world around you exists beyond your mental perceptions.
As an example, for those of you who are not
artistic perhaps you envision a beautiful scene in your head but when you
attempt to draw it, your efforts yield a depiction that looks more like one
something that a kindergartner might sketch. That is equivalent to the
communication that you desire to convey from a multidimensional perspective
and the limited amount that you are able to express from a third dimensional
This explains why there are so many
communication difficulties in personal relationships as well as between
governmental leaders and all levels of interpersonal communication in between.
This is also why you feel misunderstood so often and why despite your best
attempts to hear someone that you still arenít able to fully comprehend what
they are trying to say. It is because there is so much that we desire to
convey and we simply donít have to tools do so effectively from a third
With all the being said, you are actually
doing quite well. The fact that you continue to have relationships; the fact
that governments are at all effective; the fact that so much effective
communication does occur within the third dimension means that there is
something else going on and this is where Cosmic Communication comes in.
Many of you have already been consciously
working with aspects of Cosmic Communication for some time now as you realized
that the limitations of third dimensional communication and began searching
for more expansive and effective communication tools. For example, you are
finding that using heart centered communication is far more effective than
purely mental interactions and that trusting your physical reactions to a
person or situation can be useful in more accurately interpreting a situation.
You are also learning that communication
with other humans can be enhanced by trusting your guidance, connecting to
your inner child, listening to your angels or whatever sort of Divine or
non-physical connection you incorporate into your perspective of reality which
facilitates you to more fully be able to express yourself and to engage with
We will now give you eight tools to help you
master Cosmic Communication:
Stop trying to reconcile what you know and
what you think. Your emotional response to the inability to reconcile these
two perspectives results in stress, panic, and feeling overwhelmed because
you are trying to make sense of things that no longer make sense. It can be
compared to having only five pieces of a 1,000 piece puzzle and you are
frustrated because you are unable to put the puzzle together.
Release your attachment to emotional
drama. Participating and perpetuating drama in your life takes a tremendous
amount of physical, mental and emotional energy and leaves little or no room
for a conscious connection to your Divine guidance. You may also need to
release an unconscious belief that if you figure out how to effectively
communicate that you will become bored.
Recognize your inherent contradiction in
desiring authentic, heart centered communication yet being unwilling to
reveal your Divine Humanness or seek it out in others. Consider the
possibility that you may have to divest the energy that you continue to pour
into relationships with those who do not desire the same connection that you
are seeking and invest in new, more affinity like mind aligned
Engage in communication with others from
the present moment. Do not rely on past experiences or future consequences
to determine your course of action in the current moment. When you do this
you override your initial Ďgutí instinct with a mental interpretation of
could or should occur. This can cause you to override your first, more
accurate instinct about how to proceed. In this moment what are you aware of
and what do you want to convey? What do you want to communicate right now?
Be clear on what you want to say. You have
become used to feeling misunderstood and unable to express yourself
effectively and no longer make as much effort to get your point across
without becoming angry and frustrated. Once you are clear on what you want
to convey, you must determine the best contextual way to express your ideas.
This allows you to focus more on communicating about what is happening and
less on changing the other person or the situation.
Have realistic expectations of yourself
and others at all times. Consider the possibility that you may be asking for
a response that is not available to you from a particular person in a given
situation or by the same token that you are unable to give them what they
are asking of you. Resist the tendency to push for resolution or make
agreements that you are unable to follow through with. Look for new options.
Know who you are. When you interact with
others from a place of congruency with who you are, you are less inclined to
want to control the outcome and more likely to understand what the other
person is trying to convey. Resolve any internal conflict about your goal or
purpose when you are interacting with others that makes it difficult to know
what you want to say and prevents you from moving forward. If you are not
clear about your motivation it becomes difficult to have effective
communication. You have to know who you are to authentically make a decision
or take action. It is unrealistic to expect someone else to know what you
want if you donít even know yourself.
Refine your internal communication and
your external communication with others will be far more effective. When you
are able to stay focused on what reflects who you truly are internally it
becomes easier to choose what to focus on externally and that allows you to
effectively express what you want to convey to others about yourself.
Regardless of who you are communicating with there is always a tremendous
amount of information available to you and it is what you choose to focus on
that determines how you choose to respond.
When you incorporate your third dimensional
human tools of expression with your Cosmic Connection to your Divine Humanness
you redirect a significant amount of time and energy toward establishing and
refining that connection so that more of your Divinity can come into your
human interactions. It is a top-down approach to use business terminology.
It is a common misconception that who you
are in physical human form is somehow less valuable than who you are from a
more Divine perspective. That is simply not true. You require both your
Humanity and your Divinity to fully express who you are in a third dimensional
reality and by extension how you communicate with others. Essentially Cosmic
Communication is about integrating your Divinity into your Humanity which
allows you to fully express your true multidimensionality.