The definition of Relationship is
actually very simple. In order to most optimally experience
Relationship, you need to do the same the same thing that we have been
telling you to do in regard to everything else in your life, take
responsibility for your choices and actions and to be true to
For you to be able to contribute and
receive the most from engaging in Relationship, you must be in
complete balance within yourself first. Each person has to vibrate at
his or her own unique frequency in order for Relationship to work. As
an example, with a string of Christmas trees lights when one light
bulb is burned out then the whole string wonít work. That is a perfect
analogy for Relationship.
Regardless of whether you are in
Relationship with one other person or several people simultaneously as
in a group, if any one person is out of balance, then it is virtually
impossible for the Relationship to be in balance. And the opposite is
also true, if each person as an individual is expressing their highest
vibration and expressing light and love in the way that they are meant
to, then engaging in Relationship becomes magic.
Are you saying that we are all vibrating or resonating on the same
Actually no, each of you is vibrating on a different frequency.
But donít we have to resonate together?
It is more accurate to say that you are meant to resonate
simultaneously as opposed to together. It is not as if each person has
a piece of the puzzle, instead each person is their own puzzle, and
as such is complete within their own puzzles. This moves us into the
idea of healing versus the idea of creation that we have talked about
in the past. Each combination of people engaged in Relationship
creates something that hasnít existed before. The optimal goal of
participating in Relationship is not to heal but to create.
Is that how Soul Groups are going to form? Once everyone is true to
himself or herself and on their path, but resonating or vibrating at
different vibrations that change when they engage together in
Yes, Soul Groups will come back together as functioning groups
only when every member of the group is truly resonating within their
unique vibration. In the case of Soul Groups, when each person
energetically re-aligns with their original vibration as recorded
within their Divine Blueprint the Soul Group returns to itís original
vibration as it was before the choice to split into expression as
In order to understand what we mean, if
you envision Source and then envision the first groups as they split
off from Source, and then see those groups split out into smaller
groups, and then still smaller groups and that is how we moved into
the illusion of individuation and separation and imagined that we were
disconnected from our Soul Groups, which in reality is impossible.
When we talk about the individual experience, each person has a
particular vibration and it has not been so much geared towards working
together as a group as much as it has been about creating the illusion
of a unique experience, different from other individuals. It is useful
to think of experiencing reality as individuals as a kind of a data
gathering expedition. As individuals with unique vibrations, each
person creates different experiences with the goal of returning with
the knowledge to the soul consciousness.
A good way to think about the uniqueness of who you are is from the
perspective of your astrological sign. Consider how complicated each
astrological chart is with all the different planets and how the
interaction between those planets and the various aspects
affect who you are over time. In each personís chart there is a
great deal of information that defines the vibration that is expressed
by each individual and no chart is exactly the same. Isnít that
If I use water as an example,
where I am the hydrogen and another person is the oxygen, as long as I
stay hydrogen and they stay oxygen, then weíve got water; but if
either one of us loses an electron or changes in some way then the
Relationship becomes something new again. Am I understanding it right?
Yes, that is a very good example and if either the hydrogen or the
oxygen changes to be more like the other, then the water would cease
to exist. There is tendency among humans when two people come together
in Relationship to attach to what has been created and then, if the
person who is the hydrogen wants to change and the oxygen doesnít want
then to change because they are attached to the water, the
Relationship becomes co-dependent.
Are you saying that if each person has their individual vibration
and if two people or a person and a tree or an animal, come into Relationship with each other, then what has been created is more than
just the two of them and it is not simply a blending of a tree and a
Exactly. It becomes something that it hasnít existed before the
moment that they come into Relationship with each other. For example,
even if another tree and another person had previously created
something together, this new Relationship will create something
different. So you canít even call all Relationships between a person
and a tree a treason or a pree, because each Relationship is unique in
and of itself.
This brings us to the concept of
multiple realities and parallel universes because you must take into
account that multiple realities are created every time you interact
with someone or something and anytime you engage in Relationship.
So far we have been talking about optimal expression of Relationship.
There are also less than optimal expressions. Anytime that you engage
in Relationship with another person, although the creation in one
reality may be optimal, keep in mind that there are also dozens or
hundreds, or thousands of less than optimal relationships being played
out in parallel realities. This is also true if you are experiencing a
less than optimal reality, somewhere it is playing out optimally and
once you understand how this works you will be able to move between
parallel realities consciously and experience instantaneous changes
within ongoing Relationships.
Do you see how complex that becomes very
quickly? We are not trying to confuse you. We know it sounds
complicated but it is actually quite simple. All that you have to do
is to be true to yourself and make choices and take actions that
support your highest divine expression on a daily basis and the rest
follows. Doing this brings you into alignment with your unique
vibration and allows you to live a fulfilling life and to participate
most effectively with the shift in consciousness that is available for
all of Humanity.